My husband cheated and is the one who wants a divorce. He says he's not in love with this girl he sleeps with. What do these things mean: I said, "don't you just ever wonder what the hell you have done?" And he said, "lately all the time." Today I asked him over e-mail how he is doing. (I know, I need to detach). He said that he deals with the sadness by exercising. Then he says if I ever need help with the kids so I can go out or on a date that he is there to watch them. What the heck is he doing? Does he have second thoughts, or is he just sad that he is getting a divorce and sad about lost dreams like me? He said he wants me to be happy. He says he still enjoys my company. Why the heck is he doing this? I dont' get it.
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