I'm 59, my wife 45 and we just celebrated our 10th anniversary in May. Her card to me said here is to a great 10 years and 10 more to come. We do everything together, laugh, love, travel, cry, discuss everything under the sun, then she comes home from a business trip and says she wants a divorce. Says she hasn't loved me for 2 years and is tired of dreaming up fanaticies (sp?) in order to have sex with me. She was raped as a child by her brother and 2 weeks before her asking for a divorce her 40 year old sister was raped. She has been withdrawn and more quiet than usual, but I assumed she was having some kind of flash back. In the last year she has also drasticly changed her hair, been working out and dropping weight and in the last couple of months she has been wearing low cut blouses to work. I asked her why we can't try counciling and she said NO. She doesn't talk to me and when something has to be addressed, she is short and angry to me. (which is not how it ever was) What is going on? Can some one shed some light on this?
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