My husband and i recently separated. We have agreed on 50/50 custody. Today was supposed to start my week and when I picked up my son(5 yrs old), he told me "Daddy said that if i dont want to stay with you I can go to his house and he will take me on a bike ride" I was devestated and I just said "ok" and then we went about our night, but Colton (my son) just kept saying how his daddy was going to take him on a bike ride. So when his father called to "check in" Colton said he wanted to go to daddy's house and started crying, I told him it was ok and my husband came to pick him up. I am so upset that my husband is manipulating him. Did I do right by letting Colton go or should I set more firm boundaries with the shedule? We just separated last week so this all new to me. We have not filed yet becuase we want to make sure the arrangement works for our son. Please any input is appreciated???
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