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My *sshole husband could have written your sad little "I don't want to hurt her feelings" story, I suspect.
Well, what REALLY hurts my feelings is that the narcissistic *sshole TIED UP YEARS OF MY LIFE with his inability to be honest.
Although, I suspect that while he *says* he was unhappy and wanted out, but didn't want to hurt me, he was more likely CONFUSED and didn't know what he wanted IN GENERAL, and he was projecting his confusion about his life and his feelings onto our marriage. His continued unhappiness, now that he is FREE, is proof of that. (And, too bad, so sad, I'm glad to be FINALLY be rid of him and I would have held the door for him years ago had he not been so (PUKE) concerned with hurting me, so that I had no idea he wasn't invested in our relationship.
You aren't doing anyone a favor, even though that is exactly what you try to present this madness as.
You aren't the least bit concerned with your spouses feelings, or you wouldn't FORCE THEM to LIVE YOUR LIE.
Get down the dusty trail. Take responsibility for your own feelings and quit blaming someone else (your spouse) for your inability to do so.
"You aren't the least bit concerned with your spouses feelings, or you wouldn't FORCE THEM to LIVE YOUR LIE"
is very judgemental and apparently directly related to your own mind. Not everyone feels this is a LIE, it's just a situation that cant be immediately sorted out w/o creating a whirlwind of problems and chaos. So please dont judge a "leaver" by what your husband did to you. Thanks.
I don't know if she's happy with her decision, but I AM! Maybe your husband doesn't want to rock the boat either but maybe it would be best for BOTH of you.
perhaps a long talk IS in order?
Thanks for the post