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What goes around comes around. Do anyone really be

deleted_user
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Everyone keeps telling me what goes around comes around. Does everyone belive this? Will Karma really strike the asshole stbx and the home wrecking whore?
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I have proof. It does.....
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Kelly,

I had a friend explain to me that Karma is about doing the right thing, in hopes that you will be treated right. But, there's no gurantees--I'm sure they won't stay together, but what their life holds is not for us to guess.

However--I do hope that something painful, but not fatal attacks both of them for you!!
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Hopefully someday I will have proof that karma does work! I am living for that day. . .
deleted_user
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Sure it does! Look at the Clintons!
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I feel you on this KELLYG!!! I pray for it everynight. I think time is waiting for the day when I don't care though so I won't hurt yet again. Maybe thats it for you too.
MimiL
MimiL
I keep hanging on to that....being a good person...not a doormat....but good. call me selfish but Im hoping to bring some of it back to me...hold on with all your might to stay positive...did you read that bood The Secret...its helpful read in small doses.
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I believe it does...read psalms...there's no telling when it will happen but sin is wrong and will be punished at some point...nothing good can ever come from this relationship. How can a strong healthy relationship be born out of lies and infidelity? Just can't. It will always be in the back of the ow/om's mind that it started with cheating.
deleted_user
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Karma exists. It may not come as one giant event but smaller ones over time. My ex put me through hell for months, destroyed the family, cheated, exposed the girls to the affair, and generally was just plain evil. Since the divorce became final she has lost her checking account, been evicted from her apartment, and her family has stopped helping her financially. She is truly on her own which is the one thing she had feared the most.
deleted_user
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Yes!! Yes!!! You will one day see...what goes around comes around....believe it!!!
deleted_user
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I believe it does, but unfortunately, we may not be there to see it.
deleted_user
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It does happen. Just that we don't always recognize it. I try to live a good life and be good to others. This just makes the world better. But I have noticed that when people are mean, or they do something less than kind to another, for some reason other people give them the same treatment back....part human nature part karma.
deleted_user
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I believe it does.I am waiting for this day.I don't wish them harm.But a pay-back would be nice.
deleted_user
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Doubt it.
james021011976
james021011976
I am told this a lot. I have seen evidence it is in some respects with my situation.

Her health has declined, she is not sleeping, her skin has gone bad, she is very angry, bitter and twisted, she has lost respect of friends and lost friends.
james021011976
james021011976
I think it pisses her off also that I am getting on with shit without her.
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