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What gives?

deleted_user
deleted_user
My stbx tells me all week that she is going to her folks place for the weekend. HORAHHH!!!! She even tells me today that she will more than likely be there until Tuesday. WOW!
I could'nt wait to see her drive off (I did choke back my emotions when my 15 mo. old daughter started waving from the back seat).
Now I sit alone in a big house. Feeling like my big house - empty, cold and lifeless.
My bedtime has come and gone. I think tonight will be a long one.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Been there done that... pretty recently too... I just cleaned the whole house and watched a bunch of movies... I didn't have DS back then... That would have been nice...
deleted_user
deleted_user
I am sorry, all of this just stinks. I am sorry for your pain.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Think about you.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I am so sorry, ET. We're here for you!~!
Garrison
Garrison
Just like belzar, I, too cleaned the house and watched movies when I went through this.

Keep busy. As busy as you can.
CanadianRose
CanadianRose
We are here for you Tank.

I went thru the same thing..and well.. the computer was busted at the time.. too much time on my hands to sit and be sad.

Gimme a Hug Big Guy!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I sooo know what you mean! Here I sit in a big old 4 bedroom, 2 story house and think that I need to get a smaller place- there's no heart here anymore.
Jlhorlando
Jlhorlando
I'm with you ET. I'm in the same boat tonight.
deleted_user
deleted_user
OK

Group HUG!!!!!!!
Jlhorlando
Jlhorlando
I'm in, BIG group hug!!!!!!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
I'm in too for the hug, my husband was an ass to me today. I just want to join in with a BIG HUG.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I used to clean like a demon when I was upset..guess what the dirt waits!

Do what the rest of us do...eat over the sink, tune up the stereo!
deleted_user
deleted_user
over the sink hell. I'm eating in the friggin living room now!!!!
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