I am trying to be honest & share my feelings with my boyfriend but it seems like when i am feeling sad /insecure & scared about our relationship it just seems to irritate ,aggravate,& a definite turnoff , & then he starts to act like i'm a clingly insecure girlfriend (which then only makes me feel like one) BUT! when i am mad or act like i don't give a shit , he is all up my butt & calls every five minutes to make sure i'm home & not out & asking me if i love him over & over. WHY the game playing , / I love him & i don;t like that i have to act like i don't care to be treated good. I have talked to him about it & he says its just how he is & don't take it personal ,but what can be more personal than your relationship? i feel so sad right now. i don't know if he is just an insensitive doofus or really doesnt give a shti. & he's doing the old turn things around on me when i get sensitive about things he says & i wish i didnt know better becuz that hurts.
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