I've been contemplating the demise of my 20 year marriage for a couple of years now, but we keep plugging away at it, because I don't want to do it to my kids, I feel so guilty, and we keep thinking maybe somehow it'll be such a terrible mistake, that we just have to work through a "rough patch" and we'll be happy we stayed together one day. But I was wondering, for all the soon to be divorced, and divorced out there- what would you have done differently if you could go back in time? would you go back and fix it where it went wrong? would you have left them sooner? would you have never married them? would you have tried harder and stayed? I'm so torn about what to do, I'm comfortable to a certain degree and our family life is pleasant, but I just don't think I love my husband anymore, I'm just worn out and so tired of trying so hard, but then a divorce would be so much more stressful to me, I think, so I keep trying.
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