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Friends, in a little over a month we will be facing a new year. I personally am itching to shed as much of this year, my issues and problems as I possibly can. Over a month ago I began a letter to the woman who slept with my husband and had his baby. She's been apart of my marriage since the beinging and I'm done with him and her. It seems I'm expected to ride off into the sunset with my head hanging down and a tear stained face, without being heard. I'm holding on to the letter until I'm sure I've said everything that's on my heart. So far, my purpose is to let her know that I am a real person and the damage she has caused is real. I've said how I didn't respect her as a woman, blah, blah.
What I need to know from you guys is; what would you want the OW/OM to know? I don't want to bash her but I want her to feel like sh^*. I've tried to come off as the woman who still has her dignity, while at the same time letting her know that the last thing she wants to do is cross my path in her lifetime.
What else, guys?
What I need to know from you guys is; what would you want the OW/OM to know? I don't want to bash her but I want her to feel like sh^*. I've tried to come off as the woman who still has her dignity, while at the same time letting her know that the last thing she wants to do is cross my path in her lifetime.
What else, guys?
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If anything, you might just want to make sure she knows whatever could have been said about you has to be taken with a spoon of sugar as there is always two sides to every story and most likely, what he was teling her about you, wasnt the truth.
Now t hat I have that out of the way...people repeat behaviors...he'll do it again, lucky her!
i want her to realize how horribly selfish she has been, putting herself before my two grandchildren who will likely never see their other three grandparents.