Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
What is anyones opinion of a 40 year old man who has 3 children from 3 different women. Has custody of 1 only because his ex wife is in and out of jail. Does not have custody of the other. He is on anti depressants, past steroid abuse, goes on adult sites, Do you think he will change????his behaviors...
He got caught with the steroids when he lived with me, stopped.....Went on a adult site when I was 8 months pregnant looking for a good time and I caught him...I still stayed with him, moved in with him at his home after the baby was born, took care of his 8 yr old daughter for 3 years, he says I am controlling, never happy and always was stressed....Basically says he left me because of me...Broke up a family, threw me and his 8 month old daughter out twice, said he wasn't going to stay with me just for our daughter. ect ect...do I have to go on because there is so much more....what bothers me is he had a good side believe it or not....Always gave me what I wanted and gave me nice cards once in a while, was that guilt
He got caught with the steroids when he lived with me, stopped.....Went on a adult site when I was 8 months pregnant looking for a good time and I caught him...I still stayed with him, moved in with him at his home after the baby was born, took care of his 8 yr old daughter for 3 years, he says I am controlling, never happy and always was stressed....Basically says he left me because of me...Broke up a family, threw me and his 8 month old daughter out twice, said he wasn't going to stay with me just for our daughter. ect ect...do I have to go on because there is so much more....what bothers me is he had a good side believe it or not....Always gave me what I wanted and gave me nice cards once in a while, was that guilt
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
it's time to look inward and begin to heal yourself from a life without him. Good luck to you.
I would run as far and as fast as I could. I was married to a man for 25 yrs, who was always capable of changing "in the moment" for just long enough for me to hang on and then when I'd throw my hat back in the ring, would bail emotionally on me again. TWENTY FIVE YEARS of my life -- 32 if you count the dating years -- down the tubes. He will NEVER change -- yours -- and you deserve better. You just need to convince yourself of that fact."
Good luck to you. Buy a good pair of running shoes...
Becky