
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

deleted_user
This past Sunday my wife told me that the spark has gone and she wants a divorce. She says that there is no changing her mind that once the spark is gone there is no getting it back. This is a complete shock for me to hear her tell me she felt this way for a long time. We just bought a business 5 months ago and are finacially barely making it. She claims that she had these feelings before we bought the business and when I asked her why would she by this business with me if this is how she felt. For the past couple weeks she hasn't been acting like herself, for example she called me on the phone to tell me not to hurry home that our son was on his way home already, only problem is our son is 5 and was in school. Then she told me she was dizzy and and couldn't focus. This was the day after she told me she wanted a divorce. She has also made statements to her parents and than claims that she didn't say them. Her mom has asked her to go to the doctors and she refuses to go. I worried about her, and I don't want this divorce to happen. More importently I worried about our sons and how and when to tell them. Even though she says there is no way to save our marriage should I still try?

caruTH
You should always try to save your marriage. Never give up on that. I still have not given up, after the divorce is final.

deleted_user
She said she needs space but I am still questioning her on stopping this, She has said she will wait until after the holidays for the sake of the kids.

LarryLDN
I tried with conversations often for a few days and then agreed to live elsewhere, she even found me the place I stayed the following 13 months. After 3 months I accepted it was over, after 6 months I was starting to appreciate being on my own for the first time, ever.
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