
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
1) takes care of herself/in good health
2) honest
3) able to show empathy toward others
4) interested/curious about the world
5) team player
6) well liked by people around her
7) enjoys sex
8) loyal
9) has her own interests
10) argues without demeaning the other party.
11) isn't overly materialistic
12) generates her own happiness
13) is the softer/gentler one in a relationship
Things I don't like
1) treachery toward anyone, even her enemies
2) uncontrolled rage during PMS
3) nagging
4) treating people different depending on how much they have.
5) laziness
6) out-of-control career focus
7) lying
What do I look for In a woman, somone I would spend the rest of my life with?
1) Honesty, this is number one and the most important to me. reguardless of the circumstances just being honest gains my respect.
2) Maturity, Very mportant to me. I dont want another child I want somone I can talk to and who can respond without barbs, fits, or the like.
3) Caring, Somone that I can lean on and who leans on me when times are tuff.
4) stability, Someone who sticks it threw the good times and the bad. Someone that I can depend on. Somone that will be there when I need her most.
5) Compassion, Somone that does not spend 1000 a week at there local Wal-Mart and in the end use the excuse I work to much and was not there. Somone that does not send me to work the next day after smashing my ankle hobbling around trying to rebuild engines with one foot.
Loyalty, Somone that has enugh integrity and self respect to keep it in there pantz. Somone that does not jump ship everytime some horney man wants fresh meat.
This is my perfect woman. I am not concerned about looks an ounce of intelligence is worth a pound of beauty. I am not concerned about age, love has no eyes. I enjoy sex like any other but it is most definitly not on my list I would trade sex in a heartbeat for the list above. Altho I am quite sure I have a better chance of winning the lottery than finding somone even close to this.
I love this Mechanic! Reminds me of Judge Judy who says "Beauty fades but dumb is forever."
It's nice to see a man who values intelligence--my stbx never did.
So in answer to your question? In thier heart men want to avoid marriage...even if they say something different.
I'd still like to believe that men want a lover, companion, and friend. Those are the things I want. Please don't give up on all women--some of us still believe in committment.
Yes, maybe I'm a hopeful optimist and yes, I also realize that optimist is sometimes spelled fool. I'll take my chances.
Have a good day.