Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
My mind goes from one gear to another.One day I am in the im going to be just fine state to a day where my house is a mess and i just cant do anything.Im tired of it and my girls need me I cry most of the time.I cant do this
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A friend sent this to me..As far as I can see, grief will never truly end.It may become softer overtime, more gentleand some days will feel sharp.But grief will last as long as Love does - ForeverIt's simply the way the absence of your loved onemanifests in your heart. A deep longing accompaniedby the deepest Love some days. The heavy fog mayreturn and the next day, it may recede.Once again, it's...
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Today is my 25th birthday, to my somewhat lack of surprise I can see already no one really seems to care. I've always been the kinda person to make sure that everyone I Care about feels appreciated and knew somebody had their back. I can count 4 times this year when I Went out of my way to make sure a "friend" felt good on their birthday, especially if they got left hanging. Its early in the...
There is no object so foul that intense light will not make it beautiful Ralph Waldo Emerson
When you are immersed in darkness you cannot see the beauty that surrounds you. You are so depressed and downtrodden with thoughts of what is happening within your life that you cannot see the beauty of life anymore. Divorce and breakups are synonymous with darkness. The lies, deceit, hurt, pain, guilt, despair, or whatever may be holding its grip on you, it permeates so deep to keep you from seeing the beauty that surrounds you. You walk around with the black cloud of darkness and despair, a cloud you can actually feel upon your shoulders. It weighs you down and maintains your focus. You feel it everywhere; driving, in the store, at work, at school and even at home.
Although the darkness feels overwhelming, realize that light dispels darkness and darkness cannot prevail when light is present. Your thoughts are like a beacon of light that can dispel the darkness. Focus your thoughts and attention on what is still right and pure within your life. Focus on those wonderful children you are blessed to love, raise and see grow into young adults as they achieve their aspirations and dreams. Focus on the family and friends you have to provide support and encouragement. Focus on your love for your dog, and any other pets you may have (for me, its Duchess, my wonderful dog). Focus on the fact that you are blessed to live without poverty and you can go online and talk to strangers like we do here. Focus on the fact you are alive to live and to love again.
Love and Light never cease to prevail. Light will always prevail over darkness as will Love. Continue to love and see the love and light in all and you will prevail.
hurtingforhim76531,you are not alone, there are many emotions that you will go though but keep talking and you will get though this time