I am a mother of two small children, have been very unhappy for a long time. I finally decided I needed to end my marraige, but chose to go to a therapist with my husband, not to mend the marraige, but in hopes we could improve our relationship for the sake of our kids. We have gone for over 2 months and now the therapist says there is no reason to continue counseling together, because we are not working on the same goals. I am wanting a divorce, my husband does not. He has spoke with a lawyer, I have not. I have thought about mediation, but not sure if this is the way to go. My therapist fears his is not going to make this easy. I really want to move out, have saved money. I honestly want to end things amicably and am just so scared and confused about what to do next. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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