im a young man 19 almost 20 my wife is the same age. im in the military shes not we got married in texas but both our residents is california. we have been together for 4yrs and tow to three months of marriage. its been nuthin but argument due to me being stationed overseas and her back at the states then i will be deploying to iraq in two months. well we have been really arguing lately and she fianally said i want a divorce then she said im sorry and didnt mean it then we got into another arguement and i told her your not coming up here and than wshe said now i want to divorce you i apologize i told her im getting help for anger managment and i atop drinking. i made these changes not only for but for me and our marriage also. so she still wants to file. she told me she loves but is not in love with me. i dont get it last month she told me we were meant for eachother and that love conqueres all obstacles. now she doesnt even want to try nuthing for us i dont get it. she said she loves being freinds she considers me one of her best freinds i told i do too. then i called her back saying it hurts me to much to be freinds so i perfer not to be freinds cuz i still have the husband mentality and i will get hurt if i ever saw her with someone else so i shut her out of my life yet i still want to try and go down there a give her one ast hug b4 i ship off to iraq to try and win her love back!!!
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