MY HUSBAND AND I SPOKE FOR THE FIRST TIME TODAY IN ABOUT A WEEK. I CAUGHT HIM DRIVING BY OUR HOUSE SO I TEXT HIM. HE TOLD ME HE WANTED TO COME SEE HIS DOGS SINCE HIS LIFE LONG DOG AT HIS MOTHERS HOUSE HAD PASSED AWAY. WE ENDED UP GETTING INTO A HUGE FIGHT BECAUSE I WAS NOT GOING TO ALLOW HIS BROTHER OVER AT MY HOUSE AND HE CALLED ME A CUNT. TEN MINUTES LATER HE CALLED ME BACK CRYING TO INFORM ME THAT HIS DAD HAS HAS HAD A MASSIVE HEART ATTACK AND HE HAD JUST FOUND OUT. I TOLD HIM ALL THIS RIDICULOUS FIGHTING WAS STUPID SINCE SO MUCH BAD THINGS WERE HAPPENING AND HE AGREED. HE CRIED WHILE HE TOLD ME ABOUT HIS DAD AND I TOLD HIM I LOVED HIM AND HE REPLIED "I JUST CANT TALK TO YOU RIGHT NOW" AND THEN HE HUNG UP THE PHONE. WE LIVE IN GA, HIS DAD HAD THE HEART ATTACK IN FL....HIM AND HIS DAD HAVE HAD ISSUES FOR YEARS. HIS DAD AND MOM WERE MARRIED FOR 25 YEARS AND HIS DAD HAD AN AFFAIR AND MY HUSBAND WAS STUCK IN THE MIDDLE OF IT.....HE HAS HAD ANGER TOWARDS HIS FATHER FOR AS LONG AS I HAVE KNOWN HIM.....IM SO LOST ON ON HOW TO BE HERE FOR HIM SINCE HE IS THE ONE WHO LEFT ME.
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