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What are you doing to...

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make yourself feel better?

I am going to be graduating from college in December.

I am trying to lose 50lbs.

I am quitting smoking. Start using the patch next week.

I keep busy with my children.

Getting an exercise routine down. I am doing it at night when the kids go to bed as I watch tv.

I am getting out on the weekends they are with their father with some friends just to make new friends. Too soon for anything more.
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I'm trying to figure out what I want long term. I need to lose some weight and I have considered seeking a degree and getting into law enforcement.
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I am taking online classes for Medical assisting.
I go to a support group once a week.
I have lost some weight.
I went out this week end, I have started going to church
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I've been going out a little here and there. I started going to Monday Night Football at a bar my newphew hangs out at. Last night I actually won $250 in the 50/50 raffle. This is my third time I have won. The second week I won $60 and the third week I won $160. Mondays aren't quite so bad anymore ;o)
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Excellent question!

I am losing weight.
Reading a little daily inspiration on working on me.
Reconnecting with friends that I haven't seen in awhile.
PRAYING more.
Planning a 2 week trip to France in May 2008 to see my son.

Trying to figure out just what to do with the rest of my life.
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I am going to pause on occation and realize the witch actually left and the peace is not a passing thing.
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I'm starting my own business. I've gone down a pants size YAY!

I try to stay active with friends and family and enjoy being alone too.
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I am playing volleyball again after 12 years of giving the sport up. I am making new friends in town and online. I am friends with my high school sweet heart again. ( My 20th reunion was last fall.) We had not seen each other since 1987.
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I spend all damn day on the site.....aaaahhhhh

Seriously though, going to the gym to focus on myself has been huge from boxing to weight lifting to yoga....just tremendous.
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Wow, so many of us have lost weight (me--almost 40 lbs!). I wonder if it's because exercise is relaxing/distracting or if we decide to improve ourselves and get healthy, or even if we overate due to unhappiness during the marriage. I think the first and the third thing are true for me.

Other things: exercise, spending more time with friends and family, spending more time at work and working on my career, renting movies
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