Ok, some of you may know a little bit of my situation with my x...I gave him custody of our 3 children a little over a month ago knowing my emotions have been out of whack and I know it isn't good for my kids to see this..I admit to this and I feel I made a major sacrifice in doing this...well, the kids had stayed with me all last week, and last Tuesday, I had a major outburst through text messaging on mine and my x's cell phones....I did text my x's girlfriend too becaue when I went up to the school to pick the kids up, I had gone a little early to surprise them, and the receptionist had to get their enrollment cards out to make sure my name was on them...this wasnt surprising since I havent been up to the school yet since it has started...My x was the one who filled them out so they couldnt add my information as their mother...well, my name was on there as someone who could pick kids up, but you know what?!! On the line where it says Parents names, it has my x's and his girlfriends name!!! I was livid and well, I remained calm in the office but after I got the kids, I had sent my x a text message telling him about it but he acted all dumb about like he didnt know...well, later on he admitted to doing it that way because back when I had our kids enrolled at another school, and I had full custody, I did not put his name on there...I had a feeling he was doing this to get back at me but putting someone elses name on there where mine should be???? I mean...is this right????? no I know it isnt and I made a HUGE issue about it, so now the x has told me I cant keep the kids anymore for a week because of this....after days of passing on Friday, I took the kids to school, and then dropped their bags of clothes off at the x's house ok..well, it was pouring outside and he had asked me to put them on the porch but I didnt want all their stuff getting all wet, so I knocked on the door instead...he was in a robe and for some reason, that bothered me, and his girlfriend was there too so that bothered me even more....why is it everytime I am around them I act this way?!! I really think I could do some major damage and of course I know it wouldnt be the right thing to do but really....my nick name is "freakshow" and he is saying that just the littlist bit of exposure of being upset is bad for the kids...I know it isnt good for them to see me freak out, but they didnt see me freak out.....is it really ok that kids never see parents upset at all, and think everything is ok and perfect all the time? I mean...don't they need to know that parents make mistakes too?? he has all of my text messages to prove what a freak I can be but really, what are my rights here?? I am still very upset and just wondered if someone could give me some advice here????
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