Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
I worry since i'm the daddy in these scenario's scorned wives have been posting. I am not delusional. I do KNOW we are usually the cheaters. Yet when it does happen to us, as in my case do judges award us the children. I am making just a few thousand more than her so that wouldn't be the issue.
Would I be able to obsess over my children? I mean the cruelty and being cheated on the hole 9 yards has happened to me. Right down to dumping the kids on me and leaving every afternoon to spend the night out for a month. Now when she moved out she took the children and I just feel so much more alone. I just feel I wont even be able to see my children as often as before all this happened, between my jobs and school. At least when I lived with them I was there and so played for minutes at a time. Now weekends with (time off) is all i can do.
Would I be able to obsess over my children? I mean the cruelty and being cheated on the hole 9 yards has happened to me. Right down to dumping the kids on me and leaving every afternoon to spend the night out for a month. Now when she moved out she took the children and I just feel so much more alone. I just feel I wont even be able to see my children as often as before all this happened, between my jobs and school. At least when I lived with them I was there and so played for minutes at a time. Now weekends with (time off) is all i can do.
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
when stbx and i broke up, we had defined roles. she stayed at home, i worked. i barely got home in time to give the kids a bath and read at bedtime. since the separation i've had no choice but to realign my work schedule (50:50 custody), and i'm now an equal in the parenting department (if not greater) and the sole breadwinner (i pay everyone's friggin bills).
don't let anyone tell you otherwise - she has no greater right to custody than you do, especially if she's out every night leaving the kids with you.