The kids woke up and had a great christmas with me and they were suppose to go to their dads later tonight. Well he called me at like 1:45 and said he would be there in 30 minutes to pick up the kids. I told him I was not even at home because we were visiting my sister and eating Christmas dinner over there. so instead of starting on argument I rushed the kids home so they would be ready when he got their. our 4 yo did not want to go. She cried and cried. I told her to go give her daddy a hug and she did and he talked her into going with him under the condition that he would bring her back tonight. During the course of all this he was blaming me for the fact that she didn't want to go. He kept saying what have you been telling them. I would never say a mean thing to our children about their daddy because he is their daddy. Finally she got in the car and said "I will see you tonight mommy" I made sure he was bringing them home tonight and he said yes. Then as he was driving away he yelled, "You will be lucky to see your kids again." I ran out to the car and was hanging on to the window and he sped off. He nearly dragged me but I let go. It was all right there in front of our children and of course the OW. I don't know if he will bring them home now. The good thing is I will be filing for divorce in a few short days and ask for a custody order right away. I can't believe he did this and all on Christmas. Also he keeps trying to say that Im not a good mom and that I don't wash or brush our daughters hair. when he got there she had been crying because she didn't want to go so her hair was getting all matted down from her tears and her nose was running. He grabbed her and said "what you never wipe her nose". I don't understand why he is making me out to be such a bad mother. I just want it all to end.
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