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Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Is it possilbe that you STBX just said this to get a rise out of you?
I agree. She may be saying that to hurt you.
Hang in there. Let your son know it take more to be a father than donating sperm.
You do not have to say anything to your son right now. I would wait until you get a handle on your feelings. You are reeling now, understandably so. Let that die down because whatever and whenever you tell him, you are going to have to be able to help him deal with his feelings, so you have to have yours sorted out first.
I would think your wife did the right thing by telling you the truth. Do you think so?
What are you going to do if you find out he is "not yours". What will it do to him?
Does it matter now?
will not knowing haunt you, or will knowing haunt you?
I don't know whether you can act the exact same way to your son after the test. You might change. Even if you don't want that.