When stbx told me she wanted to leave she swore up and down that it had nothing to do with anyone else, she just fell "out of love" with me.(anyone hear that one before?) Well, she hooked up with someone before the door even hit her ass on the way out. Well, today I bump into a mutual friend of ours who still talks to both of us and tells me that her new beau has been hanging out with "girlfriends" having coffee or drinks or whatever, and that my ex is having a hard time dealing with it. Now does it make me a bad person if inside I was giggling like a school kid when I was hearing this. I mean, I don't want to see her in pain(physical pain), but the fact that Mr Wonderful is what I called him all along, a sorry excuse for a man, brings some sort of satisfaction for me. She has totally given up so much for this guy, hardly sees our kids, her family,etc... Now I'm not saying this makes up for all the pain she caused me and our kids but it does feel good knowing it's not like she expected it would be.
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