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You know the X flew out yesterday & didn't tell me where he was going. No gig deal he has dopne that many times.
But I just got this phone call. He's in Georgia. 3 guesses why he's in Georgia. He was investigating the guy I WAS about to marry. So the X tells me " Hi. I'm in Georgia. I got the dirt on Dr.Feelsalot wanna hear it?" I say " How the hell did you know about him?!" He says " Do you really think I'm stupid? I called your voicemail." So I am all freaked and quiet and then I say " Okay what is the big dirt you found?" and the X says " 3 paternity actions filed against him. Guess he finally got smart enough to look for someone who wouldn't get pregnant." I sit there quiet and he says " I didn't do this to hurt you. I did it because I care what happens to you." I say " Thank you" and then he says " Tell Dr. Feelsalot if he is still there when I get back he might not be so happy about it." I say " Thankyou" and I hang up.
Well there you have it people I am a first class IDIOT. But right now all I can think is THANK GOD I DIDN'T LET HIM FU*K ME. I might just have felt like hurting him really bad had I done that.
But I just got this phone call. He's in Georgia. 3 guesses why he's in Georgia. He was investigating the guy I WAS about to marry. So the X tells me " Hi. I'm in Georgia. I got the dirt on Dr.Feelsalot wanna hear it?" I say " How the hell did you know about him?!" He says " Do you really think I'm stupid? I called your voicemail." So I am all freaked and quiet and then I say " Okay what is the big dirt you found?" and the X says " 3 paternity actions filed against him. Guess he finally got smart enough to look for someone who wouldn't get pregnant." I sit there quiet and he says " I didn't do this to hurt you. I did it because I care what happens to you." I say " Thank you" and then he says " Tell Dr. Feelsalot if he is still there when I get back he might not be so happy about it." I say " Thankyou" and I hang up.
Well there you have it people I am a first class IDIOT. But right now all I can think is THANK GOD I DIDN'T LET HIM FU*K ME. I might just have felt like hurting him really bad had I done that.
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DANG HUGE HEADACHE going for the tylenol PM I already took motrin and it didn't work.
I have a question for you: Did your X give you this much attention when you were with him?
I understand your emotions but you really have been on a roller coaster for days now, take a minute and breathe. You ought to have a good talk with this man and hear his side- if it doesn't make sense then trust your gut but if it does then maybe what you really need is to do what you already decided- take things slow.
Pangea I don't know the details, but I do know I hate liars. I asked him if there was anything from his past I needed to know about. He had the perfect opportunity to speak up then. Worse than I hate liars I can't tolerate men who don't claim or support their own children. My sister got pregnant from a doctor and had my niece years ago. He never claimed that kid. She looked up her dad years later and he STILL won't claim her. However his son ( the half brother she found out about) told my niece that she looks just like his dad & that he knows she is is sister and that he hates his dad. What kind of guy does that to his own kid? AND IF A MAN WILL ABANDON HIS OWN KID HE WILL ABANDON ANYONE.
Plus the X said there was more in the report, but I told him that that was enough I didn't need to hear more.
What I've said is that I hope you have ALL the FACTS. It would be terrible to throw away a possible great relationship because of speculations. I understand that your X did a background check of some sort. But does the doc really have 3 kids that he isn't supporting or are these women trying to get him to support babies that may not be his .
I love you --- is your headache gone?