Well for any of you who follow my story i knew he would call today because his new girlfriend is at work and the drinking and partying of the weekend is over and hes probably out of money so he thinks, hey i'll call susan and tell her i want to see maria (our 3 year old). he called me about 6 times and i didnt answer, he finally left a message saying "i just wanted to see if your gonna let me see Maria, I didnt mean to bother you or anything, so if you let me see her you do if you dont you dont". I was with him 4 1/2 years and the cycle never ends. I just knew he would call today. what is his new girlfriend not "doing" it for him??? he always says its to see his daughter but he never cared ever to take care of her or help me take care of her ever. he never calls to see how she is doing or anything, and in the past when he called to see how "maria" was doing i usually either gave up money or sex to him. i need some advice from you guys today, im trying to be strong and just not answer the phone cause i'll be in that same cycle i was in before about asking him if hes still with his new girlfriend and all the normal questions, like what has he been doing. i cant wonder that anymore. i was just thinking about leaving him a note that if he wants visitation rights he has to go through the courts after we get the child support settled. he spends all his money drinking now and on his new woman i guess. and even in the past rarely did he ever take care of his daughter and if he did he dropped her off at his sisters house instead of watching him hisself. thats why i dont believe he is calling me for that reason. so what do you guys think?
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