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Wedding ring?

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When did you take it off and what did you do with it?

I took mine off before he even left,and I told him to pick up a bag of his junk and tossed it in!

lets hear it!!!
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I am having dasa vue here!! Wasnt this a post last month!! LOL

I took mine off the day I left and put in on her jewlery box where she would find it.
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oops, I wasnt here a month ago,was too busy living like a shocked zombie....
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I threw mine in the trash at my aunt's house.
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That is okay, we can run it again!! LOL
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my ex pawned ours while we were still married to buy a bag of weed...

I took mine off the day I left, but haven't thrown it away or anything. I don't really know what to do with it.
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I took mine off on our anniversary while we were separated. I'm keeping it a drawer in case I need money down the road - Hey, a diamond's a diamond!
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I got hit pretty hard on last months thread on my reply so now I am melting it to my desire.
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Oh, I didn't throw the engagement diamonds! just the wedding band LOL
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what happened general??
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marymarym, Were you on last months thread?
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I took mine off the day I left.

It is living in the ash tray of my car.
It's missing a stone.
I for years asked my ex to fix it and he didn't.
never any money. Always money for his toys, but not for something I wore every day and was a symbol of our commitment. (sorry, bitterness leaking out)

I'm not sure what I'll do with it.
The way I'm feeling, I'd throw it in the pond today, but it's frozen over.
:)
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I took it off with a pair of pliars and bent the damn thing to hell. I had no intentions of doing that, but I couldn't get it off. I don't know if I will ever part with it, simply because there are alot of wonderful memories attached to that ring. There wasn't always sadness. I thought that if we are not going to reconcile then I would possibly have the diamonds taken out and have a nice necklace made with them for my niece.
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MY ex sold his (third time) to buy crack. Not sure what I will do becuz mine was my moms original wedding ring. I guess I should have seen the signs a long time ago when he never gave me an engagement ring and I bought his and got mine from mom. Boy when I write it I am amazed at the fool I was lol
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I'm keeping mine and selling/pawning it for cash. I took it off on and off after he was pretty clear that he wasn't going to stop cheating and let go of the OW. I took if off for good a couple days ago and put it in an extremely safe place once I told work about the situation and didn't feel the need to wear it at work anymore.
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I took it off immediately...after I told him that I wanted him gone. Within a month I gave it to my sister who was supposed to pawn it for me...she freaked out and never did. I'm waiting for her to return it to me (I haven't bugged her about it or anything) so I can take the darn thing to the pawn shop.
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