I've only been married for six months and the last two months I have been pulling back because I am catching my husband in lie after lie. We knew each other in high school then met up again a few years later and instantly new we wanted to be together, 8 months later we married. Well long story short, I now find out he has made 72 calls to a singles chat line, he's been cashing his paychecks and spending them at a casino then telling me he doesn't get paid, he has a daughter that we fought for and then he just out of the blue decided he didn't want to have her full time so he gave her up and the agreement with the mom was she would repay the bill from us fighting to see her (her mom kidnapped her and sent her away while she was in Iraq so he couldn't see her. We had to fight to even see her after 6 months) so anyways, we have a bill of about 8000 and he told me she was going to pay monthly and it was in the paperwork. Now to find out, it's not in the paperwork at all. Basically everything has been a lie. Every time we fight he lies and I catch him in the lie so he creates another one. I don't even know him. I filed for divorce because I can't take being cheated on and lied to, he also takes money out of my account and lies about what he's spending it on. He makes very little money so I've been supporting him. Now he's saying God can help us through and all the usual stuff and I am trying so hard not to give in to him. My heart is shattered, on the floor and he's stomped it into the ground.
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