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Wanted

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All must read knowing this is sarcasm with a slight touch of reality thrown in to make me feel slightly better!


Wanted: Relationship with a female who has the following traits:

Loving, caring, honest, has her priorities straight (ie: family first), sincere, intelligent, attractive (ok before anyone gets crazy over this , I'm not looking for a model (I have one now and it's not working)), likes romantic evenings that involve quite dinners, a movie, music etc... Has her head on straight, has no need for a mid-life crisis and leaves vanity at the door.

Other than that....... I'm easy :)
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(*)Kiss thanks
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I think that I fit that description but only if you added: has sole custody of the children who will never see their father again and will always be around! That caveat tends to beat them away better than a stick!
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Yea, my babies and me are a package deal too. Love them love me!
Faith75
Faith75
Hmm, interesting! I want that in a man form too please! A man willing to be there for me through thick or thin moments. Does that exist?? *sighs*
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faith75, those men do exist i am one of them! I have always put my wife and kids first. I have sacrificed a lot over the years and even with what is going on now i would not change that. I get more out of life pleasing others than pleasing myself.....maybe thats wrong but thats who i am....
LarryLDN
LarryLDN
I found what I want, in who I want, I Just don't know if I can have, and won't know until after my decree. Then, if not, at least I'll have an idea what I'm lookin for
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Any man who doesn't love kids isn't worth the time. Your kids are a reflection of you and should be accepted as such.
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I would love to have a man like that too. But for now, I will just concentrate on getting my divorce.
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My STBX always came first! I did what she asked me to do, I put her first. I did without and that was okay with me. Family comes first, but when it came down to it, her friends and own selfish desires came first!
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lovesuks, you're not alone (not a surprise by now I'm sure!)
Put her and the family before ANYTHING else, but wasn't enough for her... her selfishness is what drove her.
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