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i want to call the other woman!!
i want to tell her the real truth about this person that just moved into her home. I want to tell her about his recent past conversations and about our unborn baby boy. (i don't think he would of told her about us).
he not only told me this past few days he wanted to make things right and work things out. He denied any further contact with this woman and stated he was not dating anyone...
but he lives there in her house for the past three days!
i want to make his life unpleasant at least for a little bit (if she decides to take him as he is). I don't blame her, I just want her to know what kind of person he is.
i want to tell her the real truth about this person that just moved into her home. I want to tell her about his recent past conversations and about our unborn baby boy. (i don't think he would of told her about us).
he not only told me this past few days he wanted to make things right and work things out. He denied any further contact with this woman and stated he was not dating anyone...
but he lives there in her house for the past three days!
i want to make his life unpleasant at least for a little bit (if she decides to take him as he is). I don't blame her, I just want her to know what kind of person he is.
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however if she is in love with him she could be blinded
you could just warn her in a nice way.
My advice, do not call.
I have resisted the urge to do the same, because I know it won't do me any good.
my God we sound like broken records here. I hope one day we can have like a different posting mechanism where we can have stickys that say like "if you want to call the OM/OW here's what you do - DON'T DO IT"
There's so many reasons I think I am going to write them down on a word doc and keep it in my documents file and all I have to do is copy-paste.
Let me say the obvious is "she won't believe anything you say!"
If anything all you will do is form a bond that the two of them can create like a "us against them" mentality. If you are wanting them to stay together for a long time (which statistics say wont last) then help them out by giving themselves something to unite together.
It is not going to make him miserable. He does not care about you or how you feel. She knows that he is still married and obviously she doesn't care either.
Spare yourself the hurt and just forget about his sorry ass.
My answer is that neither one of them is worth the air, time or enegy it would take to make the call. If you need to get it out of your system, write what you would say on a piece of paper. scream, write trash about both of them(they deserve it)just dont mail it.I will keep you and your son in my prayers.
If he's told YOU those things, he's telling HER things too. She's going to believe her own ears before your words.....
Besides, in my case, I know that she's jealous of me because he still loves me. I just sit back and think, when they get in a fight, and she starts having doubts, it'll be me she's thinking he's thinking about. Wheather he is or not. I'm not really jealous anymore. But she is.