Trying to get thru the windup oh stbx's employment in the business. Trying to get the detils written up in the confidential Marital Settlement Agreement. Hating walking on eggshells with this jerk. If I don't e-mail or vociemail the info or inquiry in exactly the correct tone, I am blasted with his hate and anger. I have to get to the end of this process as quicly as possible (the legal angles I understand that the emotional crap takes a while longer). He keeps saying shit like "I am sorry", I still want to be friends" adn generally acting very bent out of shape (even guilty and unhappy) but he is NOT following thru on his promise to communicate (a) the istitutional knowledge that we the Firm would like to ahve related to his employment adn position with the Firm, and (b) his professed willingness to cooperate in getting the details sorted out. All I see, stretching out endlessly, is me being responsible for his debts while he goes and plays in la-la land. I am feeling more betrayed than ever by his meaningless words about "cooperating" thru this ordeal. It jsut ain't happening. The communciation is spotty, I only call or e-mail him (now) after I have carefully thought about how to phrase something business or divorce paper realted in the most unoffensive way possible -- like walking on freaking eggshells!
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