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wake me up

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deleted_user
my atty called and said that my marriage was over I thought today would be a good day but now I don't know if I'm dreaming or just having a nightmare don't know how I feel about this am i sad ,angry lost ,hurt confused someone please help me
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I am so sorry, I know you were hoping that things would work out. I will send a prayer and a big hug your way. My heart hurts for you.
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deleted_user
BIG HUGS to you. It's hard I know and never easy even though it's over...

Take time to have all of those emotions and take care of yourself. There is no timetable to healing.

Take care!
deleted_user
deleted_user
This is the first day of the rest of your life.

Enjoy it and look to the future, don't look to the past too much!
deleted_user
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Chuck...I'm so sorry. Many of us have had the very same exact feelings. In my mind, it was like living in a wide-awake nightmare. Continue your posts, journals, feelings, questions and reading the posts of others in here and you will find that you are among those who totally understand these feelings you have. Hugs.
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What ever you are feeling right now is OK. we all feel different when the day comes. Some of us are still not ready to exsept it. Some of us cant wait for that day. Some of us need that day to wake us up some more to the reality of it all. Feel what you must. Its OK. We all are unique.
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You sure must feel horrible after a phone call like that. I don't what I can say to make it hurt less, but just know others are with you and have been where you are now. We're all here for you.
patti22
patti22
It's both and so much more all rolled up in one. Looking back and looking forward, just looking takes up so much of the day. I try really hard to just live in the moment. The past and future are just too much. Time seems to have a way of getting me used to things....like putting on a new hat or getting used to a new house. After a while it feels like home. My thoughts are with you.
deleted_user
deleted_user
I think the Life is being sucked out of me
deleted_user
deleted_user
Oh my god Chuck I wish I was in your position, to be free of the not so stbx is all I want right now. I don't know your story but you have to change your attitude, obviously you did not want this but when they put you through this, you can never really trust them again. I almost got divorce 11 years ago and my biggest regret since getting married was taking the not so stbx back. Trust me you life will get better!!
deleted_user
deleted_user
well your in the right place for all of those feelings. with this new year coming so fast, we all need to take advantage of the next few weeks and figure out what we want for our own lives, no this will not be easy through the pain, but it's a brand new start.
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