And you thought no one would want you!!!!

I don't have that problem yet; I'll get back to you when I do!

LOL Good situation to be in despite the problem of making choices!
I can only suggest dating the ones that seem most suited to you.
I made the mistake of joining Yahoo personals to see what was out there since my selfesteem was shot and I thought nobody would want me but I get a flood of hits and matches unfortunately I am just not ready to date yet

Yeah, +1. Wanted to do that and was tempted but still, NO WAY even close to being ready to date again... too much healing yet to be done.
What's that Oprah saying... YOU GO, GUY!
;-)
Just be careful. But I know you will be.

easiest way to bankroll yourself is to go meet for dinner and/or movie. Go have coffee or tea first. You can still meet at a public place, set exactly one hour aside saying you have another engagement/event with friend/family and is all you can set right now. if you hit it off, call again for a 2nd date. that way you'll know if you want to keep going with that person. never turn down an invitation unless of course you have zero interest. nothing wrong with getting a coffee. just don't set two appt. dates at teh same place on the same day... that'd be a hoot...

well if things get to out of hand, i'll be your agent. i'll get their portfolios and 8 x 10 glossy. and i'll check their criminal background and references. we'll have a new show. who wants to date eyeloveda. glad you spirits are so good. and have fun on all your dates.

Excellent advice all and Curop ?? You in dere !!
I've had 2 gf's but was dumped by both but haven't given up just yet. I really don't think I'm here to be alone and single...and yeah...I'll be careful...already made that mistake with a taker !
Live and learn LOL

I have never been alone. Made up my mind I will stick it out and get to know me at least during the divorce. Its been over since Feb 2006 and I havent gone out yet. I know some at singles and divorce workshops that would go out. Also I joined a dating site but havent contacted any yet. I'm all set up but dont feel like making the move. Kind of enjoying the peace for once in my life. I hope I dont become a hermit...lol.

Naw...I doubt you will Zoot - my marriage was over March 17th, 2006...and I've had TOO much time to think and be alone. We all need someone to care about. Just hope I didn't get theshot stick again LOL

Good for you! lol Thats freakin awesome! Why not just go on all these dates, and I bet you at the end of the day someone will stick out in your mind that you liked being with the most. Good luck to ya and have fun! Theres hope yet for all of us! :)

Good for you! lol Thats freakin awesome! Why not just go on all these dates, and I bet you at the end of the day someone will stick out in your mind that you liked being with the most. Good luck to ya and have fun! Theres hope yet for all of us! :)

I had difficulty with those sites. Kept running into guys who wanted to "hop right into the sack" or were "married and cheating". I had an ad for a while that was working, went out on many nice dates, but I also ran into people who just refused to read the ad. I specified and age "category" and would get people way outside of it. I specified interests and actually got guys who said "oh well I don't know anything about that stuff, but I like....(fill in blank with things opposite of my interests).".

Good luck to you though.