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Today I tried to reason with my sbtx. I filed for divorce yesterday and my attorney says that I have the right to spousal support since we both decided that I would quit my job to take care of our 6 mo old twins. He found this out and blew a gasket! He degraded me, saying I will never amount to anything, that I'm just trying to get a free ride, that I will never be successful and our children will only know success from him. He's in a very prominent position and is very concerned that any of this get out to his coworkers/bosses. He was very verbally abusive and nasty saying things I know are not true but got to me anyway. I had a very bad breakdown and knew that my only "Saving Grace" were my children and babies. I did not want this divorce but he typed up his own papers that I didn't trust and sought my own attorney. Now he's angry that she advises me the way she does.
Just to show how even more evil he's being, he hired my ex-husband's attorney! And told me not to be surprised that they will team up against me!
I'm a very emotional person and he knows that. He played on them and knew I would take the bait. I tried not to but I let him get to me anyway. He's very abusive when it comes to the tongue. Any suggestions on how to handle the emotional and verbal abuse?
Just to show how even more evil he's being, he hired my ex-husband's attorney! And told me not to be surprised that they will team up against me!
I'm a very emotional person and he knows that. He played on them and knew I would take the bait. I tried not to but I let him get to me anyway. He's very abusive when it comes to the tongue. Any suggestions on how to handle the emotional and verbal abuse?
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No one deserves to be verbally, emotionally, spiriutally or physically abused.
Hugs.
You are starting on the path to stop the abuse from him. He will not get better without treatment himself. stay close to your attorney and continue to do what she says, find a dv support group and keep coming in her. We will support you as well.
Thank you again!
I suggest saying "I'm not going to listen to this any longer"..then hang up, close the door, walk away or do whatever you have to do to NOT hear it. THAT is taking control!
If someone were physically assaulting you, you would try to protect yourself and get away from it, yes? Well this is no different, get away from it.
True story. Some women are pigs. Some men are innocent victims. But try to express that in here and you get your head chewed off.
Now let me tell you about my second wife.....
lol.
Forget about him. He doesn't deserve you or the children. Try to hang in there and remember what goes around comes around and someday.. he will get his. If you want to talk.. please contact me. I'll be praying for strength for you as you try to get thru this. I know how physically and emotionally exhausting it is. Take deep breaths and look at the beautiful faces of your children. You can do it! I'm here for you if you need..
Hugs,
Donna