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So X called last week, wanted to work things out, sorries, I miss you, I was stupid, I need my family, you are the best thing that happend to me. The whole shebang. We've been talking. He seemed sincere. Last night, he didn't call when he was said he was going to, only after I sent him an angry text. All the work he promised he would do stopped. He was very attentive and considerate for a week. LOL. It's back to the old him. Hrmph.
What the hell does he want with me and why is he coming back? What is wrong with this man. How can a person be so heartless? Why doesn't he just leave me alone?
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Shock,

Dont beat yourself up over this.

Step back, take a couple deep breaths. You guys got some red flags flying, do BOTH of you really want to commit everything it takes to making it work?

If so, good luck to you!!!
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its a thing called control. he feels as long as he thinks controls you, he's in control. take that away from him. no more angry texts. no more trying. just do for you and your family. this happens to everyone (but me thank God), I actaully closed the door on that and told her no way in hell she can ever ask, it will be an astounding NO.
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