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Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
You are dealing with a lot right now and worrying about whether the next woman in your life will care that you had a vasectomy or not is not something that really matters right now. That being said, I have found that women see it as a good thing that you were willing to take that step in the past and are not too macho to admit it. Knowing that seems to put them a little more at ease when you do become sexually active with them. Additionally with advances in medical technology vesectomies are more easy to successfully reversed these days then in the past, if it should come to that.
Right now you should be worried about more important things.
God bless you my friend.
Your feelings may change if you do meet the "love of your life". And the procedure can be reversed.
take your time.
As for the next one, tell her right away. It may not matter.
I did after my son and have not regreted it at all since.
Well, I became Mr. Mom, she had her tubes tied. I always felt a vas caused people get get 'puffy' and I liked being thin.
So I have a loaded gun still but was thinking to get the vas, I surely do NOT want any more children. Can't afford the ones I got.
I beg your pardon ???