so my family and i had planned a trip last year to go to the outer banks, north carolina for a week, which was last week. we are all excited, things with the woman were going well...my sister niece and i were about an hour away from our vacay house when my grandma called and told us that my uncle had died suddenly. my family is torn up needless to say but last week and weekend really opened my eyes to a lot of things. family is so important and if anything my uncles death just reiterates how strong a family can be. i'll try to make the rest if this short. so i wasn't looking for a lot from my lady friend, i mean i know she has a lot going on with school and what not. but i got NOTHING. not a text saying "how are you" or a phone call, NOTHING. she told me she was sorry when i told her what had happened, but she never intiated any contact. not one bit. she told me she couldn't continue with us that she didn't have the time. i understand her time restraints, but she told me she loved me. apparently her definition of love is quite a bit different than mine. ehhh. i cannot and will not continue to be a fool. if a person can't step up when you need them then dammit they aren't worth it. i deleted her number from my phone, now i just need to take that next step...
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