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VIRGINS AFTER DIVORCE. how long till you had sex after your divorce.and was it casual or with a special someone?
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well i was never married but with my ex for 7 years. But 8 months later...yea still not had any....no biggy though....just sucks at times ya know.....But i think when the time is right and the moment is right they why not if you have feelings for that person and they have feelings for you.
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Been since April and still not ready. Can't do the casual thing, just my .02
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Not looking. Would not trust them or myself enough. It just would be empty gymnastics. I stick with BOB.
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after my divorce years ago, i went 8 years. then casual with 3 people and i could not do that anymore. i felt so nasty. then 8 years with my present ex. and nothing since may.
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We weren't married, and haven't been with anyone else but him since he left.
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Haven't yet.
I almost made the mistake with an old friend a few weeks after we'd separated. I'm so glad that I didn't. It would've really messed me up.
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I'm called the Born Again Virgin!
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Too long to admit. I've never picked up a guy for a one night stand in a bar and I"M thinking about it, but probably will chicken out.
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when the time comes, it won't be a one night stand...did that once during one of my separations, (stbx was sleeping with ow at the time and i was mad at him) anyway, it was just wrong...i regret it to this day.
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