I wanted to let y'all know that Reid my EX is: sad, subdued, misses me, loves me, is taking the divorce really hard, and is still drinking. I found that being away from the negative I have turned back into my old wonderful and funny self. He did me favor by leaving my life because I "was" negative to everything. Now I am back to my old self and my friends and family are seeing the changes in me. Reid is getting input from our close friends that I am doing just great too. I miss the loving part of the relationship but I don't miss anything else. Valentines Day was not bad at all because Reid was truely never there in the 1st place. I see this now. I hope and pray that all of you on DS find happiness with your own selves and understand that you are really the only one that can make your life happy. It is your decisions and choices that make your life the way it is. So everyone make it a point to do things that pamper and pet your very own selves. I have been doing this and it takes time but it is very helpful and I am learning more lessons this way
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