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Well I'm in the hotel getting ready for my flight home and this has been one rollercoaster ride of a weekend. I had written a poem dedicated to my Grandpa that I was able to read at the funeral (between moments of composing myself), If you care to read it I posted it on my Journal.
Besides the loss of my Grandpa, the biggest thing that made this weekend difficult was dealing with the dysfunction of my family. Due to a large part of seeking healing from the "high control" group I was a part of I have found some healthy boundaries, but still is a work in progress. Then of course came the stbx leaving me, and here I was with my family this weekend, that frankly needs a lot of therapy.
So after such a rollercoaster ride I don't need to go to a six flags amusement park (lol), but I do need to de-stress a little. I want so desperately to have a healthy relationship yet it seems everywhere I turn it is so hard, there are a few in my family that are learning to deal with things in a healthy way, but I can't wait for the day when I find a woman that has that healthy perspective, sharing with me dreams and a mutually respectful love together.
Just had to vent there, thank you my friends and fellow seekers of healing.
Besides the loss of my Grandpa, the biggest thing that made this weekend difficult was dealing with the dysfunction of my family. Due to a large part of seeking healing from the "high control" group I was a part of I have found some healthy boundaries, but still is a work in progress. Then of course came the stbx leaving me, and here I was with my family this weekend, that frankly needs a lot of therapy.
So after such a rollercoaster ride I don't need to go to a six flags amusement park (lol), but I do need to de-stress a little. I want so desperately to have a healthy relationship yet it seems everywhere I turn it is so hard, there are a few in my family that are learning to deal with things in a healthy way, but I can't wait for the day when I find a woman that has that healthy perspective, sharing with me dreams and a mutually respectful love together.
Just had to vent there, thank you my friends and fellow seekers of healing.
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
I am so sorry for your loss and I know you will miss him!
Hugs!
Talk about dysfunctional families...Geez, I have one hell of a doozy of one. No wonder I'm such a mess!
We have the same dream...that respectful lover will come when the time is right, I just know it! LOL
My advice for that - stay strong and don't let them bring you down.
Get home safely and know that I'm thinking about you.
Vent all you like!
I know what you mean about the fun of dysFUNctional families. But, hey. They're our folks and personally, I think all families are a little dysfunctional.
Sorry, you have to go through so much, one thing after another. You seem like a great guy who just wants some peace and stability, just like the rest of us. Things will get better soon. Hopefully 2008 will be a better year since we used up a lot of our bad luck in 2007.
Take care.