Both of our sons have birthdays coming up in September. My STBX has already started to talk about a party for the younger one. SHe wants to try to arrange a fire house party because he is so into the firetrucks and driving by the firehouse every chance he gets. She has talked about a gift for the older, but has not mentioned a party for him. I am pretty sure that she thinks that the party will be all of the family, my parents, her parents, me, her and the OM and probably his kids. If that is the case it is going to be totally awkward for me and probably my family. I think it will also be weird for her step-mother, who has told me she doesn't like the other guy. Possibly for her Dad who also voiced he doesn't like what she is doing. I think if I were to suggest separate parties or suggest that she not have the OM there, she would twist that around and make me out to be the bad guy...AGAIN. I am just not sure what to do.
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