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My 33rd birthday is coming up in a few weeks and I'm trying to come up with a way to celebrate it, instead of feeling like shi* about the state of my life. As I'm sure many of us feel, when I think of my age and where I'm at in my life and relationship...I feel CRAPPY. I don't really have many friends to celebrate with and my family doesn't really understand what I'm going through...and isn't really there for me the way I need. Any advice on how to do something just for me to help perk up my spirits on my looming birthday? (I have VERY limited funds). I'd like to see my birthday differently...and not get sucked into feeling like another year went down the drain. I've tried doing things by myself lately...going out to eat etc, and many times I fight back tears. I'd hate to feel like shit on my birthday. Thoughts? Advice? Anything you've done that helped?
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Then, I went to a bar that served dollar domestics with two friends and got smashed off like $15. I was home by midnight and felt pretty darned ok with my situation. Although the b-day was pretty empty of all I've known for 12 years, I still hung out with a real good friend and other acquatainces.