Breakups & Divorce Support Group

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Can you ever be friends with someone who hurt you so many times in the past. Can you ever get over your first real love. I feel so pissed off at Josh and this girl name Kathy.Kathy and I been friends on and off for years and it is a never ending game. I been breaking off contacting her.She is a pain in the butt. I am trying to spend less time online and more time on me.Can someone send me messages and can we all talk.I am not sure where this belongs on this website.
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Ouch. I'm not at all good with that. Once I have made up my mind, it it pretty much a done deal...good luck with your responses!
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molly, I do not believe you can be friends with someone like that. I have tried myself with someone & all they wanted to do was hurt me. I could NOT move on like I needed to. I ended up telling him I did not want ANY more contact from him. It hurt BAD, but I got over it & moved on with my life. HE was VERY toxic to me. Now, I am a MUCH better person. YOU need to do what is best for YOU!~! YOU are the MOST IMPORTANT THING IN THIS WORLD... YOU have to put YOURSELF FIRST!~!

As far as your "so-called" friend, IF she was a friend at all, she would NOT have been with you STBX. FRIENDS DO NOT DO THAT TO FRIENDS. She was/is playing YOU & HIM. Let her continue to play HIM if she wants, but get rid of HER... She is NO good to you either!~!
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Kathy never dated Josh. Kathy hurt me by telling me to fuck off and she wants me to die
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It may sound harsh, but once somebody breaks a deal with me (friendship, love relationship, whatever) I have no more time or energy to spend in that direction. Maybe it's my age or the fact that I'm finally beginnig to realize that there are too many other people out there who need a good friend or some other kind of help, to spend time playing games.
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