
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.
Respect me as I respect you and happiness will follow.
Certain things-such as Children and Pets-those are more along the lines of Plain Common Sense...Touch Them and DIE!!!
I am still looking at the concept of Boundries and thinking of Fence Lines. Even after, or maybe Especially After, what I have lived...I don't think I could find them acceptable.
Is it Shrink time for Tami, again?
1. A good woman builds her house up.
2. An evil woman tears her house down.
Very wide yet firm boundaries, and I am not talking just a physical house here...I am talking about a home, and so was God.
The very first one on the list was serving cold sandwiches for dinner-I kid you not. It was about 15 years later and his mother was visiting. We were past 100 degrees and she suggested sandwiches and chips for dinner, and I remember going into the shakes and almost throwing up from stress.
She got her way, he got mad, I hid.
He used to call to make sure that I was "obeying" the schedule.
That is what Boundaries look like to Me. Jeff's Rules.
Don't invade personal space, don't "do" without permission, always watch the axe hanging over your head.
1. Commitment
2. Affection
3. Honesty
For me, if we have these three, everything else will follow.
4. If you are just looking for a sperm donation go to a bank.
1. Don't get married ever.
2. Only accept those who have own income, Insurances, Home, Transportation, No nagging debt, No live ins, No desire to take what you have, Ability to maintain own things...ex; "I'll get a Man to do it!", Similar likes, Reasonable in realizing Wine & Dine dont mean going to monoco and the riviera, Someone who dont Hate men already and thinks Ophra is a fat biotch, One that realizes men have feelings, needs, and emotions too.....and I could go on, but you get the idea.
3. Must not be vain above reality.
4. Must know giving and recieving is an act of love and not a flaw.
The guy who wanted teeth in a woman made me think of this stuff...lol