My husband finally decided he wanted to end our 27 year marriage after keeping me dangling on a string for 10 months. The house is now on the market, but we are both still living here which is very hard for me. It is difficult to keep boundaries and control my feelings when he is here. I stay in my room to keep out of his way, it is no life. I have asked him to move out but he won't. I am not sure it is in my interests to move out myself as I can't afford it really and also he does not clean up or present the house well to buyers - it would be more likely to sell if I look after it not him. We really need to sell so we can both move on. Has anyone else had experience of trying to live under the same roof? What advice can you give?
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