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Unbelievably GRATEFUL!!

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So much has happened in the course of this year. I left an a very abusive "husband" who was an addict of many kinds, who treated my son and I like a pile of shit and traded us in for video gaming and sex. All of that aside.....

Over the past few months I have been in the process of being diagnosed with cancer to top this all off.

I found out yesterday morning that the docs only found ONE minor thing and it is not in any way shape or form related to leukemia or lymphoma.
I could not be happier! I have my LIFE back!!

I was reflecting on everything last night as I ended my day. Thinking about all of the violence and struggles and worry that I have endured over the past years. NONE of that matters any more!! This whole divorce thing is a temporary condition. This too shall pass, I have already begun to heal, and i have truly learned a VERY BIG lesson in what is and is NOT important in life. Divorce is NOT one of them!! I will survive this too, and I am just so grateful for the blessing of health, happiness, my beautiful son, and wonderful family and friends. Divorce is not the end of the world..... A HUGE thank you to you all for pulling me through this!
patti22
patti22
Sometimes life has a way of letting us know what really matters.
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Congratulations!!! Very GOOD News :-D
keepthehope
keepthehope
I am happy for you. Glad to hear the good news. Keep moving forward. Best of luck
solongbye
solongbye
Your strength is admirable, you should be so proud of your ability to raise your son under such terrible conditions. I look back at the last year and think about how I felt that I would not survive, how I begged the lying, cheating,drug addict to please come home. I now realize that I did this out of fear, fear of starting over, fear of raisning my children alone, fear of what kind of influences he would have my children around. I cannot control his self destructive behavior but I can control how I live my life and how I influence my children with my choices. My children will see that I am providing them with a stable home, that I love them unconditionally, and that I have done everything that I could to keep them safe. I can be proud of that. You can be proud of what you are accomplishing too.
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deleted_user
God is so good.
deleted_user
deleted_user
Wonderful, wonderful news!!! Sounds like you are wrapped in LOVE. Congrats!
Aloha Nui Loa
deleted_user
deleted_user
Namaste: that is very good news about the cancer, or lack of it. You have come to a great point in this process we call divorce. The realization that it is not the end, It is just the begining. It is the begining of a new life for you and your son. one without abuse and neglect. It is a liberating feeling isn't it?
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