I just got a call from my mom. She received an email from my H's stepmother asking for toy ideas for my son for Christmas. This woman and her husband (my h's father) have not spoken to my son in 18 months. "grandpa" has no contact with his only blood grandchild because he has chosen not to be a part of his life. he has actually seen my son maybe 3 times in his 6 and a half years of life. There are no phone calls and no communication, they have chosen NOT to be a part of his life other than the annual christmas gift. They did not and NEVER DO even call him on his birthday or send him a birthday card. NOTHING. AND she emails my mother? Is it that hard to pick up the phone? My son doesnt even know these people. I'm really frustrated. i told my mother not to respond as I feel its very unfair to put her in the middle like that. its not moms responsibility. I would really like to just ignore the entire situation, but also want to take the high road. What to do? LOL Sad, really sad.
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