So, Im unhappy with my husband and for some time I have been : ( He is a workaholic, sporta fanatic ( watches sports constantly and ignores me - has punched a couple holes in the wall when he's lost bets on games), has no sex drive or hardly, cannot communicate with him when things are rough between us - he walks away and says "I'm done with this conversation." I stand there for a minute and then literally follow him around the house trying to get him to discuss an argument with me and he stares at the computer screen or book in front of him. Im SUPER exhausted from our relationship. He makes no effort at all and has told me he is who he is and if I dont like it "too Fing bad, leave!" Its mad me feel horrible and Ive shut down because hes hurt me so much with this behavior. Ive been sleeping in spare room for close to two years and I want out. Only reason I stay is for our two small children, whom Id do anything for (even if it means staying so as not to disrupt their lives) and for finances. He does really well and is a great provider - although its come with a price - being ignored, disregarded and oh how can I forget, his Big ego. Its like hes forgotten why he chose a wife in the first place. He NEVER apologizes, compromises, or communicates at all. So Ive been shown attention by another man (not proud of this : ( and hes very sweet to me, attentive, loving etc . I want to get to know him better and I feel guilty about it because Im married however Ive been neglected for so long and as only human with needs!! The thing is - this other guy seems a little cheap lol. With my husband, I can buy whatever I want, skies the limit. Yet my husband is emotionally unavailable. This other guy is there for me 200% emotionally. Hes become like a best friend to me. Any advice?
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