I dont know if any of you remember me. my username a few months ago was txhurt. i decided not to come on here anymore at the time because it kept me thinking about the pain i was going through. I wanted to give an update and let people who are new to a breakup that it really does get better. my ex left me on valentines day after i caught him with another woman. I really didnt think i would make it through> it was the most painful experience of my life. im not all the way over it but i really am getting there. there has been alot of fighting lately about the safety of the kids because he is living with an unstable woman but besides that things are good. Ive been told by more than one person that i look great and that divorce agrees with me lol. my self esteem is back and i really do like who i am now. i realize that my marriage was distructive and bad for both of us. I am thriving and he seems to be falling apart and im actually at the point that i can feel pity for him instead of being so angry that i enjoy his pain. my kids are healthy but very bitter towards their dad because he has been blowing them off alot since the new girl moved in but im going to put them in therapy. I finally see the light at the end of the tunnel and have started dating a little, which hasnt gone well lol things have changed in the last 14 years. But when i am really ready i know I will find someone good and trustworthy. i have learned that even after what he did i have to be open to trusting again because you cant make a relationship without trust. So anyway i hope everyone is doing well and being good to themselves.
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