
Breakups & Divorce Support Group
Just broke up with someone or in the midst of a difficult divorce? Breaking up is difficult no matter what the circumstances are. They say that time heals all wounds, but sometimes a listening ear or a hug can work wonders for the heart. Whether you need a place to vent, someone to hold you to No Contact, or need advice about what to do, we're here to help.

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This is my first posting. I've been married for 9 years and just was told a couple of weeks ago that he loved me but was not "in" love with me and that he needed space. In the meantime he has met another woman and last night we separated and he went to her. He has a daughter that we see regularly and I have been a part of her life since she was 2. I'm scared of being lonely and don't want to lose my family. I feel like I'm going through 2 deaths at once. I don't know what to do with myself and am struggling to make it through even one day. Any suggestions to help get over the hurt and move on?
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- keep it simple. No major projects. You will find yourself really "spaced out"
- get out. Do whatever activity you can get your hands on.
- figure out who your true friends are and RELY on them. You will not be a burden and they will be there for you- you won't feel like eating, but make sure you eat small snacks. Your mind will play tricks on you if you don't.
- write in your journal
You will survive. I never thought I would but I did.
Best of luck.