I have to honestly say I don't think I've ever encountered anything more difficult than what is happening at this time. Separted now for 11 weeks after 20 years of marriage. I have two wonderful kids 17 and 20 who are very supportive but seem to be pushing them away at this time too. It's not my intention but they feel they can't approach me because I'm aways upset. I've explained to them that I love them with all my heart - but I am struggling with what to do and how to do it at this time. My husband decided that he wanted to be on road more than he wanted to be at home and blames me for the split at this time. I am grown up enough to know it takes two to get things this far. he's not willing to take any steps to save 20 years of marriage at this time and is moving on with his life - he's now on dating sites and it just hurts. He said that he's there for the kids and if I need anything to call. I'm tried of feeling blue and just feel overwhelmed with the responsibility at this time. I have good days and bad days and some in between days. I just feel betrayed and feel I'm letting my kids down right now.
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