My ex and I have been separated for a little under a year. We have a daughter together, and share custody of her. I have to see him every week, and have to talk to him on the phone as well. He is the one who has chosen to let the marriage go. We were fighting a lot when we first broke up, and the fights were getting more and more intense. We had both gotten physical with each other. Since September of last year, I have gone to Anger Management, and counseling every week. He has not done anything to control his anger or receive any type of mental health help. About 3 months ago, he decided he would try to get back together with me. We went to a couple of marriage counseling sessions, and then one day we got into a fight over our daughter's daycare. He then decided that he was going to stop trying, and has since completely cut me out of his life, including de-friending me on facebook. I am so hurt over all that has happened, and just want to be happy again. I am constantly thinking about what could have been with us if only he hadn't given up. He has never been very motivated to do much of anything, so I guess I should not be surprised. I am very disappointed. The man I loved for over ten years is treating me like he never loved me at all. He continues to hurt me even though he knows I am hurting, and that is the worst pain of all.
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